The last several weeks your humble blog poster has had a significant change. You would benefit greatly from reading this book, it will routinely affect your life, and you'll be a happier person!
Dale Carnegie's Famous, "How to Win Friends and Influence People"
Relevant To Those Interested Only In Programming:
Your author has also had a chance to learn some Assembly, what a rush! Check out these books, if you want to learn x86 asm yourself:
PCasm , WikiBooks , How Computers Work , and the usual Art Of Assembly
Initially I thought assembly was very different than it actually is.. It is, in fact, an extremely useful tool- but a very tedious tool. You can do amazing things with it, and any programmer with any credibility should read it!